Tuesday, April 28, 2015

How self-compassion can help to soothe and heal your mind and body.



If you have experienced trauma, neglect or
abuse of any type and struggle with feelings of anxiety, depression and you frequently worry or simply have pain and tension in your body, learning to be kind and gentle with yourself is essential to experiencing relief in your body and lasting peace in your life.  Learning to have self-compassion and loving yourself when you have had such experiences may be very challenging to you; however, it is a key to unlock your potential for healing and growth.  

  


Lovingkindness meditation and learning to adapt an attitude of curiosity and hold all of your private experiences (e.g., your emotions, thoughts, memories) gently takes consistent practice and will help you to be less reactive and judgmental so that you simply notice what it is that you need in the moment that may be life affirming (e.g. reaching out to connect with people who you love, spending time outdoors to experience tranquility with nature, receiving a massage because you are aware of physical pain in your body) and may experience more vitality in your life. 


 

Learning to self soothe and self-massage is also very helpful in cultivating a loving relationship with yourself and helping you to heal from trauma.  While asking your partner or receiving a massage from a massage therapist is a wonderful and very loving experience, you can use simple skills to apply touch and heal such as using acupressure exercises to gently massage key areas in your body.  The Shen Men point in your ear is a powerful meridian that can help to ease any acute distress you may be experiencing.  You can also use the traditional Japanese healing art of Jin Shin Jyutsu to experience more emotional balance and vitality.


To your health,

Dr. Sandoval

 

To learn more about how working with a psychologist and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.


The information, published and/or made available through the www.fullofradiance.com website, is not intended to replace the services of a physician, nor does it constitute a physician-patient relationship. This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. You should not use the information in this post for diagnosing or treating a medical or health condition. You should consult a physician in all matters relating to your health, particularly in respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.  Any action on the reader’s part in response to the information provided in this blog is at the reader’s discretion.

 


Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Learn how to move past self-sabotaging behavior . . .



You may be working to lose weight because
you’ve faced a life threatening illness, quit drinking alcohol after years of struggling to be sober or find the romantic partner who you’ve dreamed about your whole life.  You have made great strides in losing weight having lost 50 lbs., been sober for nearly a year or finally gathered up the courage to get out to a social venue to meet your dream partner.  Just when you think you're on your way to reaching your goals, you reach for the those 2  extra fudge brownies, martini cocktail or ignore the call from the person who you had a great time with and who expressed interest in you after your night out on the town.   If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

Self-sabotage behavior frequently occurs when you ARE making significant progress and are aligned with your life’s deepest desires.  What may seem like regression or being “stuck” in a pattern of behavior that does not serve you, actually is a mechanism of self-protection.  As you work on your goals and face the unfamiliar (e.g., getting attention from interested romantic suitors, refusing the cocktail from a friend you  are used to spending time with, saying to no to the host who baked the brownies and is a good colleague at work ), you may experience discomfort, feel “unworthy” and experience guilt.  So rather than accept these experiences, you engage in behaviors that are familiar and comfortable.  

In order to move past your self-sabotage behavior patterns, you need to recognize that it is occurring because you’ve faced and overcome similar situations in your past.   Once you understand that you are not “stuck” and that your behavior is your mind’s way of keeping you safe, it is important that you embrace your uncomfortable feelings or thoughts without self-judgment.  By learning to mindfully accept your discomfort and adopting an attitude of curiosity and compassion, you will be able to more effectively respond to the unfamiliar situations that will invariable show up because you are now a different person.  

Once you have embraced being curious, reflect on what you need in order to feel safe and be true in your life in order reach your goals.  Very often, your life structure or fear of change keeps you from making bigger changes in your life (e.g., addressing your work colleagues who know that you are trying to lose weight, finding new friends to socialize with who do not drink alcohol, learning to first love yourself) that you need to lose those last 10 lbs., celebrate your sobriety or be with your dream partner.  



To your health,

Dr. Sandoval


To learn more about how working with a psychologist and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.


The information, published and/or made available through the www.fullofradiance.com website, is not intended to replace the services of a physician, nor does it constitute a physician-patient relationship. This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. You should not use the information in this post for diagnosing or treating a medical or health condition. You should consult a physician in all matters relating to your health, particularly in respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.  Any action on the reader’s part in response to the information provided in this blog is at the reader’s discretion.

Tuesday, April 7, 2015

How putting a spring in your step heals your body and mind . . .




Optimal health is more than what you eat.  While whole foods are a cornerstone to any long-term health program, it is not enough to maximize your health if you do not include other important practices, like regular exercise.  Exercise and moving your body on a consistent basis is a core strategy to help you optimize your health and avoid several chronic health problems.1 If you struggle with your health, you may have a negative reaction to the word exercise.   This probably is because you assume that exercise is only lifting weights or long-distance running.  The reality is that any type of movement is beneficial as long as you do it consistently.  The key to exercise is finding the best type of movement for your body and lifestyle.

Generally speaking, there are many different kinds of exercise such as strength training and conditioning, low intensity cardio, and flexibility and stretching exercises.  There are also high intensity programs that incorporate brief intervals and jumping movements like plyometric exercises.  All types of movement can benefit you and enhance your health.   What is important is to create a program of exercise that you can start and commit to long term.  Below are many different types of exercise and some of their key benefits.

  • Non exercise movement: Simple everyday activities and house duties such as cooking, working on your garden and doing laundry and cleaning are all types of movement.  Several studies suggest that prolonged sitting increases your risk of diabetes and heart disease and many other chronic health conditions even if you exercise vigorously on a consistent basis.  Sitting or being inactive for a prolonged period of time has also been found to be associated with reduced life expectancy.  Fortunately, if you find yourself sitting for an extended period of time (e.g., working a desk job), you need only stand periodically to undo the negative effects of sitting.  Try stretching and moving about 2 to 3 times every hour to promote optimal health.
  • Low intensity cardio exercises: Any movement that maintains you at 50 to 70% of your maximum heart rate, such as walking or jogging.  It improves your cardiovascular condition, lowers your resting heart rate and blood pressure, helps to increase your HDL, preserves your cognitive functioning and lowers your risk for many chronic conditions like cancer, diabetes and heart disease. When you walk or jog, aim for 30 to 60 minutes, 3-4 times a week.
  • Strength training: Lifting weights or doing full body weight exercises is important and necessary for optimal health. Adding a strength and conditioning program to your exercise program is key to preserving lean muscle mass. Strength training helps you to improve your metabolism, strengthens your bones, elevates your mood, helps you to sleep better and increases levels of endogenous opioids that decrease pain.  Strength training can also help to optimize your hormone levels.  Lifting heavy weights with brief rest periods will help you to produce more growth hormone and testosterone. It is a known fact that levels of important hormones like growth hormone decline with age. Engaging in strength training twice a week is all that is necessary to preserve muscle tone.
  • High intensity, brief exercises: Doing sprints or high intensity interval training has several distinct advantages.   First and foremost, it saves you a whole lot of time. Doing 8 rounds of all out sprints for 15-30 seconds and taking 1-2 minute rest periods will amount to no more than 20 minutes. Anyone can squeeze 10 to 20 minutes during their day. In addition, brief, high intensity exercises may help you to enhance your metabolism, burn fat, increase your production of growth hormone and elevate your cardiopulmonary capacity more so than long periods of low intensity cardio exercise.  If your goal is to lose weight, incorporate high intensity interval training 2 to 3 times a week.
  • Flexibility training programs: Yoga or Pilates has a number of key benefits too. They can help you to stay limber, strengthen your core, improve balance, attention and concentration, reduce pain and elevate your mood. Many studies have found that adding a yoga practice reduces feelings of anxiety and depression.2
There are several other benefits to consistent exercise. Research has found that regular exercise can also help you to reduce systemic inflammation by enhancing your body’s production of the anti-inflammatory, cytokine interleukin (IL)-10.3 Cytokines are chemical messengers that work to orchestrate your body’s immune system and inflammatory response. Strive to exercise for 30 to 45 minutes, four to five times per week to achieve optimal physical and mental health. And, remember to have fun and play with your workouts. Vary your workouts, avoid sitting for an extended period of time and try adding brief, intense exercise routines a couple times a week.

To your health,
Dr. Sandoval



To learn more about how working with a psychologist and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well-being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.

1.  Metzl, J (2013). The Exercise Cure: A Doctor's All-Natural, No-Pill Prescription for Better Health and Longer Life.
2.  Ratey, JJ (2013). Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain.
3.  Ostrowski, K, Rohde, T, Asp, S., Schjerling, P, and Pedersen, BK “Pro- and anti-inflammatory cytokine balance in strenuous exercise in humans.” Journal of Physiology. (1999), 15; 515(Pt 1): 287–291. 

The information, published and/or made available through the www.fullofradiance.com website, is not intended to replace the services of a physician, nor does it constitute a physician-patient relationship. This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. You should not use the information in this post for diagnosing or treating a medical or health condition. You should consult a physician in all matters relating to your health, particularly in respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.  Any action on the reader’s part in response to the information provided in this blog is at the reader’s discretion.