You may face situations that are challenging and perhaps
even overwhelming each day. You may be "tested" at the
expense of your inner peace and personal resources. Illness, the loss of
loved ones and simple everyday experiences like bumper to bumper traffic can
provoke feelings of pain, sadness, frustration and anger. Such experiences not only produce painful
emotions, they are also very damaging to your body.
While practicing different forms of relaxation, skills like
progressive muscle relaxation, diaphragmatic breathing or mindfulness
meditation are effective in helping you to manage your stress; new research
suggests that cultivating and practicing Loving Kindness Meditation (LKM)
offers distinct benefits that go beyond reducing your stress.
Researchers at Emory University have found
that LKM may improve your physical and emotional responses to stress. Consistently practicing LKM every day for as
little as 10 minutes helps you to reduce feeling of stress and depression,
reduces physiological inflammation, illness, and chronic pain as well as enhances
your empathy and feelings of social connection to others, self-acceptance, and physical
resilience and well-being (i.e., increases the vagal tone and changes the neural circuitry
of the insula and temporal parietal junction in the brain).1, 2,3,4
Doing LKM meditation is simple. To practice, generate positive and loving
feelings towards yourself and others by gently repeating the following phrases:
- May I be filled with love and kindness
- May be I safe and protected
- May I love and be loved
- May I be happy and contented
- May I be healthy and strong
- May my life unfold with ease
- May I be a person of joy
After sending love and kindness to yourself, you follow by generating and sending these feelings to the following:
- someone who you love deeply (e.g., your husband, mother, daughter).
- a good friend.
- someone who is "neutral" who you have neither very positive or negative feelings towards (e.g., the cashier at your grocery store).
- someone who you do not like who may have hurt you and provokes feelings of discomfort or pain (e.g., your boss).
- all beings everywhere alive.
To your health,
Dr. Sandoval
To learn more about how working with a psychologist and
holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well-being, call
or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.
- Carson, JW, Keefe, FJ, Lynch, TR, Carson, KM, Goli, V, Fras, AM and et al. “Loving-Kindness Meditation for Chronic Low Back Pain: Results From a Pilot Trial” Journal Of Holistic Nursing. (2005). 23: 287-304.
- Fredrickson, BL, Cohn, MA., Coffey, KA, Pek, J, and Finkel, SM. “Open Hearts Build Lives: Positive Emotions, Induced Through Loving-Kindness Meditation, Build Consequential Personal Resources.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. (2008). 95(5), 1045-1062.
- Hutcherson CA, Seppala EM, and Gross JJ. “Loving-kindness meditation increases social connectedness.” Emotion. (2008). 8(5):720-4. doi: 10.1037/a0013237.
- PLoS ONE. (2008). 3(3), e1897. doi: 10.1371/journal.pone.0001897. “Regulation of the Neural Circuitry of Emotion by Compassion Meditation: Effects of Meditative Expertise.”
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Dr. Jose,
ReplyDeleteWhat an important post this is. We are often so quick to judge ourself and others for not being good enough when we don't realize that a little loving kindness will go a long way. And some of us are great at being kind to others but are quite harsh with our self. I love the sample affirmations that we can use immediately.
Warmly,
Dr. Erica
I agree and believe it is in the nature of the mind to judge. I believe it takes consistent practice and as Jon Kabat-Zinn says learning to love yourself as if your life depended on it for you to let go of this tendency.
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