How self-monitoring will help you to get out of your mind and into your life . . .

If you experience bouts of anxiety, worry and depression or you obsess with the unproductive and painful thoughts of self-judgment that your mind gives you on a frequent basis, you’ll likely benefit by learning to cultivate your awareness.  You may believe that suppressing what your mind tells you or replacing your mind’s stories with better thoughts or self-affirmations will lead you to live your life in alignment with your values.  Long-term; however, trying to not to think about your mind’s many stories is not effective and very often increases your suffering.  

Research suggests that instead of helping you to experience more vitality, attempting to control your mind and get rid of the many painful thoughts and emotions that you experience will actually increase your pain (i.e., the rebound effect).¹ Rather than attempting to control your mind and attempting to suppress your painful experiences, learning to monitor your thoughts and simply notice the frequency, duration and situations in which they occur is both simple and effective as it will allow  you to focus on creating a life of meaning and purpose.  

To separate your actions from your mind’s unproductive private experiences and help you to get into your life, you can self-monitor by physicalizing each occurrence of a painful thought or feeling with a tally counter.  Using this simple object will help you to interrupt any covert behavioral patterns that lead to your suffering, realign and proceed in the direction of what you value (e.g., being a loving parent, using your creativity in your work, helping other people in your community, being healthy in order to play with your children).  

While at first this may lead you to experience more discomfort as you realize how your control strategies have been ineffective in eliminating your pain, you will create a rich and meaningful life that measures up to your life’s purpose as your continue to self-monitor and expand your awareness. 

To your health,

Dr. Sandoval

To learn more about how working with a psychologist and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well-being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.  

1. Abramowitz , JS, Tolin, DF and Street, GP.   “Paradoxical effects of thought suppression: a meta-analysis of controlled studies.” (2001). Clinical Psychology Review, 21(5) 683-703.

 
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How to detox from sugar using real, whole foods . .

If your like many people during the holidays and starting a new year, you've indulged in your share of sweets and have set resolutions for 2015 that include having a healthier lifestyle.  Some of you may even be trying special diets or looking for that one "magic potion" in a bottle to help you cleanse and detox from all the sugar you ingested.  While the claims from supplements may sound appealing and work short term, they are not a long term solution.  In order to reset your body,  you simply have to eat real, whole foods that nourish your cells.

Sugar in soda, cakes, ice cream and other processed foods replaces the calories and nutrients you could get from eating more nutrient-dense and mineral-rich real foods, such as bone broths and grass-fed liver.   When you consume sugar, you deplete your body of essential vitamins and minerals.  As an example, your body needs 54 molecules of magnesium to be able to process every molecule of sugar you eat.  Sugar is such a problem that it is now recognized by most health experts, that sugar and not fat is the leading cause of obesity, diabetes, heart disease and numerous other health problems. 

While your cravings for sugar may be challenging to overcome,  eating real, nutrient dense  foods is simple and the most effective way to lose weight and reverse numerous health problems like diabetes and heart disease.  In order to help you, follow my guidelines below when buying and preparing the foods that you eat on a regular basis.  

Real Whole Foods

• Grass fed and pasture raised meats, organ meats, and wild caught sea food all are great sources of essential fatty acids and many of the minerals and fat soluble vitamins, like vitamins A, E, D and K that regenerate your cells, help you to build your brain,  stabilize your blood sugar levels and support your immune system.

• Dark, green leafy vegetables, nuts and berries like kale, bok choy, collard greens, Brazil nuts,  strawberries, raspberries and blue berries provide many nutrients like magnesium, selenium and folate that are essential for your body. 
• Cultured and fermented foods like sauerkraut, kim chi, miso, chutney and kefir are all great foods rich in beneficial bacteria and yeast that support and enhance your immune system, digestive health and help you to reduce your craving for sugar.  

 

To your health,

Dr. Sandoval

To learn more about how working with a psychologist and holistic health coach can help you to enhance your health and well-being, call or email Dr. Sandoval to schedule a free consultation.  

The information, published and/or made available through the www.fullofradiance.com website, is not intended to replace the services of a physician, nor does it constitute a physician-patient relationship. This blog is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. You should not use the information in this post for diagnosing or treating a medical or health condition. You should consult a physician in all matters relating to your health, particularly in respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.  Any action on the reader’s part in response to the information provided in this blog is at the reader’s discretion.